From West Lothian to the the Scottish Borders, we eventually settled in Caithness when I was seven. Growing up surrounded by Flow Country, stone and sea, I formed a deep connection with the land—one that stayed with me even after I left rural Scotland in my late teens. It wasn’t until six years ago, when I moved to Perthshire with my own family, that I truly began to reconnect with the slower, quieter rhythms of life.
Diagnosed with ADHD in my late-thirties I learned to embrace a more intentional way of living. A carefully curated life where spending more time outdoors has become vital for my well-being. This shift led me back to one of my childhood fascinations—the traditional craft of drystone walling. There’s something deeply grounding about working with my hands, in sync with the land, doing what I can with what I have. You can see my drystone here.
Alongside drystone walling, I’m a writer and photographer, drawn to storytelling in all its forms. This year has been a significant one for me: I completed my first book, a memoir, Drystone – A Life Rebuilt, which will be published by Birlinn Polygon in August 2025.
Blurb below -
‘Kristie De Garis spent years running – from places, people, and parts of herself. But chaos always followed.
When she moved to rural Scotland, she expected peace. Instead, in the space and silence, she was forced to confront everything she had avoided: racism, trauma, undiagnosed ADHD, addiction, and the stark realities of motherhood.
In the land around her—and in the slow, stubborn craft of drystone walling—she began to unearth a different life. Quiet, deliberate, her own.
Drystone – A Life Rebuilt is unflinchingly honest and unexpectedly funny. A story about the weight of the past, resilience, and the hard work of living on your own terms.
Some things may never change. What matters is the life you build anyway.’
I also had the privilege of creating my first public art piece as part of Scotland’s Remembering Together project, a meaningful initiative that reflects on collective memory and community. You can read more about my memorial here.
Whether I’m behind the camera, at my laptop, or lifting stones, I’m driven by a deep love for the land and the stories it holds.
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